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Payin’ for the Pussy: Porn Stars VS. Escorts

 

My brother has a term for all the vacant, materialistic girls that hang around him because he takes them out to five-star restaurants and buys them expensive handbags and clothing. He calls it ” Payin it for the pussy.”

“And what about escorts and porn stars?” I asked him. And he responded:

“Porn stars get paid a lot to do what directors tell them sometimes having to do the same thing over and over with sex partners they can’t choose, and escorts get paid MORE to do what they are comfortable with, for the price they choose and with the partner of their choice.”

He was right.

Today I attended yet another party, this time these of Marc’s friends, connections from his role in the adult industry. I think I have mentioned Marc photographed escorts, but he also did work in the adult movie industry in France, Germany and Italy, in the early 80′s and early 90′s.

At this party, I met a girl who I will call Marie, she is an Italian girl in her early 30′s who has done a lot of adult movies, we actually got into a pretty long conversation, and she told me all of her experiences in the adult industry both in Europe and in L.A., after had been quite open with me, I felt comfortable opening up to her, and I told her about my time as an escort in L.A., as we listened to each other, I got to see the major differences between a porn star and an escort.

And it breaks down like this:

In terms of pay, most adult stars get paid by the scene, where escorts get paid by an hour ( or a flat fee for a certain number of hours). When I was an escort I got paid anywhere from $400-600 an hour, one hour generally includes having sex once, men who wants to sex more than one time had to book two hours. Sex as an escort is for the most time not rushed, you get to know the person and they get to know. The point of the time is for you to make him feel good and him to make you feel good and to experience the pleasures of sex, sometimes you will go to dinner or lunch with the person as part of the date, just so they can get to know you a little better.

Marie said that gets paid around $600 a scene ( women make on average MUCH more than their male counterparts, some men make as little as $200 scene). A scene takes more than an hour a shoot often doing the same things over and over. Marie does not get to pick her partner, she said for a long time she had agents who didn’t care about her safety or what she did not want to do.

In terms of safety, being a porn star is much safer than an escort for a couple of reasons. Porn stars go through regular testing for STD’s, when an escort sees a client she can never know for sure that he has nothing. Escorting is something that happens behind closed doors, so both escorts are a risk for being raped, robbed or murdered, where porn stars do their job on a set where there many people watching incase anything happens.

Are you a man thinking about dating a porn star or an escort? I wouldn’t suggest it, unless you’ve got an open mind. A lot of men are not cool knowing a bunch of other guys are having sex with their girl. I met Marc while I was an escort, it was ok with him until about 6 months into the relationship when he gave me an ultimatum. Him or escorting.

My conclusion, out of the two choices, I would still become an escort, sure its more risky, but you get more freedom, more intimacy which 1 million people aren’t payin’ for the same pussy all at once!